父亲节英文演讲稿

父亲节英文演讲稿父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇1hi,everybody,this fathers day weekend,id like to spenda coupleminutestalking aboutwhats sometimesmy hardest,but alwaysmy mostrewarding jobC beingadad.大家好！这个周末是父亲节，我想花点时间与大家交流下做父亲的感想我觉得做好一个父亲的角色有时候最困难，但也最有意义i grew up withoutmy father around,he leftwhen i was two years old,and eventhoughmy sister and iwere luckyenoughto have a wonderfulmom andcaring grandparentsto raiseus,i felthisabsence.and iwonder whatmy lifewould have been likehad hebeen a greater presence.从小父亲就不在我的身边两岁时父亲离开了我们但是我和妹妹很幸运，母亲和祖父母对我们关怀备至，将我们抚养成人尽管如此，我仍然觉得父爱缺失我时常想，如果父亲一直在我们的身边，我的人生可能就会不一样了thats whyive triedpretty hardto be a gooddad formyown kids,i havent always succeeded,of courseC in the past,my jobhas keptme away fromhome more than ofteni wouldliketo,and theburden ofraising twoyounggirlssometimes wouldfall tooheavily onmichelle.因此，当有了自己的孩子后，我便加倍努力，让自己成为一个好爸爸当然,的梦想，然后实现那些目标我们应该告诉孩子们那些电台上的歌是美化了暴力,但在家里，我们生活在成就的荣誉、自尊和奋斗中我刻录该寄予孩子一些高的期望同时我们也被寄予期望，也等于在我们自己的生活中树立目标the secondthing we need to do as fathers ispaalong the value ofempathy toourchildren,not sympathy,but empathy-the ability to stand in somebodyelsesshoes；to lookat theworld throughtheir eyes.sometimes itsso easyto getcaughtup inus,that weforget aboutour obligationsto one another.theres aculture inoursociety thatsays rememberingthese obligationsis somehowsoft-that we cantshow weakness,and so therefore wecant showkindness.第二，我们需要像父亲一样地关心孩子不是同情，而是关心一一学会换位思考；通过他们的眼睛观察这个世界的能力有时，做‘我们自己”是很容易的，因为我们忽视了我们对他人的义务在我们的社会中，有一种观点说牢记这些义务是不怎么容易的，我们不能表现出软弱，因此，我们也不能表现出仁慈but ouryoung boysand girlssee that,they seewhen you are ignoringormistreating yourwife,they seewhen you are inconsiderateat home；or when youare distant；or when youarethinking onlyof yourself.and so its nosurprise whenwesee thatbehavior in our schoolsor onour streets,thats whywe paon the valuesofempathy andkindneto ourchildren byliving them,we needto showour kidsthatyoure notstrong byputting otherpeople down-youre strongby liftingthem up.thats ourresponsibility asfathers.and bythe way-its aresponsibility thatalso extendsto Washington,becauseif fathers are doingtheir part；if theyretaking ourresponsibilitiesseriously to be there for theirchildren,and sethigh expectationsfor them,and instillin thema senseofexcellence andempathy,then ourgovernment shouldmeet themhalfway.不仅如此，到华盛顿去也是一种责任，因为，如果父亲们对孩子们履行着他们的责任，对孩子们给予期望，灌输孩子们优秀的品行、关心，我们的政府就应该在其中帮助他们父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇3Hi,everybody.Sunday isFathers Day.If youhavent gotDad agift yet,theresstill time.Just barely.But thetruth is,what wegive our fathers cannever matchwhat ourfathersgive us.大家好周日是父亲节如果你还没有给爸爸准备礼物，现在还来得及大大方方地但是事实上，我们给父亲们的永远比不上父亲们给我们的1know howimportant itis to have adad inyour life,because Igrewupwithoutmy fatheraround.I feltthe weightof his absence.So forMichelle andour girls,I tryevery dayto be the husband and fathermy familydidnt havewhen I was young.And everychance Iget,I encouragefathers to get moreinvolved in their childrenslives,because whatmakes youa manisnt the abilitytohave a child fendash；itsthe courage to raise one.我深知你们一生中有个父亲是何等重要，因为我从小到大没有父亲我深知没有他我们的艰难所以对米切尔和我们的两个女儿，我每天都努力做一个好丈夫和好爸爸，这是我这时候家里没有的我总是利用一切机会鼓励父亲们更多地融入孩子们的生活，因为这使你成为一个不止是有能力生孩子的男人，而是有抚养孩子的勇气的男人Still,over thepast coupleyears,Ive metwith a lot ofyoung peoplewho donthavea fatherfigure around.And whiletheres nothingthat canreplace aparent,anyof us can doour partto be a mentor,a soundingboard,a rolemodel for a kidwhoneeds one.Earlier thisyear,I launchedan initiativecalledMy BrothersKeeper ndash；an all-hands-on-deck effortto helpmore ofouryoung menreach theirfull potential.And ifyou want to bea mentorto ayoungman inyour community,you canfind outhow at/MyBrothersKeeper.还有，在过去的几年里，我遇到很多没有父亲的年轻人尽管没有什么可以取代一个家长，我们中的任何人都可以尽自己的努力成为导师，一个倾听者和孩子需要的任何角色今年早些时候，我推出了一个叫做“弟弟的监护人”的动议一—个人人尽责的努力旨在帮助我们的年轻人发挥他们的潜能如果你想成为你们社区的任何一个年轻人的导师，你可以在/MyBrothersKeeper网站得知如何做Now,when Ilaunched thisinitiative,I saidthat governmentcant play theprimary rolein ayoung personslife.Taking responsibilityfor beinga greatparentor mentoris achoice that we,as individuals,have to make.No governmentprogramcan evertake theplace ofa parentslove.Still,as acountry,there areways wecanhelp supportdads andmoms whomake thatchoice.当我推出这个动议的时候，我说政府不能在任何年轻人的生活中起主导作用担起作为伟大的父母或导师的责任是我们作为个人必须做出的选择没有一个政府项目可以取代父母的爱还有，作为一个国家，我们有很多方式帮助父亲们和母亲们做出这个选择Thats why,earlier thisweek,we broughtworking dadsfrom acrossAmerica totheWhite Houseto talkabout thechallenges theyface.And in a fewweeks,Ill holdthefirst-ever WhiteHouse WorkingFamilies Summit.Weve stillgot too many workplacepoliciesthat belongin the1950s,and its time tobring themup todate fortodaysfamilies,where oftentimes,both parentsare working.Moms anddads deserveaffordablechild care,and timeoff tocare for a sickparent orchild withoutrunninginto hardship.Women deserveequal payfor equalwork ndash；and ata timewhenmore women are breadwinnersfor afamily,that benefitsmen,too.And becausenoparent whoworks full-time shouldhave toraise afamily inpoverty,itstimeforCongress tofollow thelead ofstate afterstate,get on the bandwagon,and giveAmericaa raise.这就是为什么本周早些时候，我们邀请了一些来自全美各地的工薪父亲们来到白宫讨论我们面对的挑战在今后几周里，我将在白宫举办白宫工薪家庭峰会我们现在有很多职场政策还是1950年代的，现在是使它们跟上今天的家庭的时候了，这些家庭通常是双亲都工作母亲们和父亲们理应得到可承受的儿保，可以请假照顾生病的父母或孩子而不至于陷入困境妇女理应得到同工同酬待遇一当更多妇女成为家庭支柱时，男人也从中受益因为我们不允许任何全职父母支撑一个家庭就要陷入贫困，所以现在是国会紧跟一个又一个州的潮流，给美国一个提升Dads work hard.So our country shoulddo whatwecanto makesure theirhardwork paysoff；tomakesure lifefor themand theirfamilies isa littlelessstressful,andalittle moresecure,so theycan bethe dadstheir kidsneed themto be.Because theresnothing moreprecious in life thanthe timewe spend with ourchildren.Theres nobetter feelingthan knowing thatwecan betherefor them,andprovide for them,and helpgive themevery shotat success.父亲们勤奋工作所以我们的国家应该尽力让他们的努力得到回报;确保他们和他们的家庭的生活更加成功一点，更加安全一点，以使他们成为他们的孩子们想要的父亲们因为人生中没有什么比他们花在孩子们身上的时间更加珍贵了没有什么比知道我们就在他们的身边，为他们提供他们需要的，给他们任何成功的机会更加幸福的感觉了Lets makesure everydad whoworks hardand takesresponsibility hasthe chancetoknow thatfeeling,not juston oneSunday,but everyday of the year.让我们保证每个辛勤工作承担责任的父亲有机会不仅在一个周日，而是年年月月日日有这种感觉Thanks everybody,happy Fathers Day,and haveagreatweekend.谢谢，父亲节快乐，周末快乐父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇4There areso manypeople talkingabout howmuch theirmother lovethem,whereasseldom peoplerealize howmuch lovetheir fathergive them.In fact,fathers loveis asstrong asmothers,but normally,fathers arenotverygood ofexpressing theirfeelings.Fathers loveis deepandsilent,thats whymost peoplethink theirfather lovethem less.If youcarefully gothrough yourchildhood memory,you willnotice yourfatheris always therewhen youneed them,though theynever saidit outloudhow muchtheylove you,fathers like a shelterwhen thestorm coming,fatherslike adoor whenthereis dangeroutside,father issomeone nomatter howyoutreat him,he willchoose tobearall thepressure andlet youfree.So pleasecheerforthelove offather!父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇5My fatherwas illiterate.The numberof illiterates3inourcountry hassteadilydeclined,butif therewere onlyone I would besaddened4,remembering my fatherand thepain heenduredbecause hishands neverlearned towrite.He startedschoolin thefirst grade,wherethe remedyfor awrong answerwas tenrule rstrokes acrossastretched palm.For somereason,shapes,figures andletters justdid notfallinto therig htpattern insidehissix-year-old mind.His fathertook himout ofschoolafter severalmonths andset him to a man sjobon thefarm.Years later,his wife,with herfourth-grade education,would tryto teachhimto read.And stilllaterI wouldgrasp hisbig fistbetween mysmall handsand awkwardlyhelphimtotrace thelettersof hisname.He submitted5to theordeal for a shorttime,but soongrew restlessandwould declarethat hehad hadenough.父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇6Every night,almost allhave hisfathers company.Fathers handswarminmy heartbuild up a warmnest.Is thatkind ofdeep feelings,let mefeel sohappy,so happy.Before goingto bed,if theydo nothear thevoice of the father,I feelupset.Fathers love,I canbealittle relyon,but I really lovehim,evenmore thanthemother love.Father alwaysbe caringand attentiveto me,for Hove,is mygood teacher.He taughtmea lot ofknowledge,including basicknowledgeof computer,typing andsome oftheviolin,some dontunderstandmath,ancient relicsof civilization,andmany,many...Mama alwayssaid,dadintelligence quotientis veryhigh,is toolazy.Previous era,he isa littlebitlazy,sothere is noachievement thinkof future,not hisfutureachievements.Now heregretted,however,it alsocan notbe changed,dad coulddothat.Dads musiccell is very good,he canplaytheguitar,flute,violin,electronicpiano,also a lot ofMusical Instruments.I alsolearn music,I learnto play theviolin,already seven,but there are somebasic knowledgewillforget,do notaccurate,and my dad also very patienttold me to correct,alsospecially from the Internetalot Ishould learnto findthe musicon theviolin,I pullwhat tune,he putthesongs,very patient.I likefast music,some slowmusic sometimespulled himsoon,my fatherasked me to correct.In myfathers love togrow down,isveryhappy,happy.Dad oftenplay gameswith me,his shuttlecocktechnology isbad,Iwas veryhigh,compete withhim.Is,of course,I won,my fatheralso saidthat heis abitof abadspirit today,so dontplay much.But seehis spiritisdye-in-the-wood,there isno badspirit.Actually,recalled hisfatherslovefor me,really lookslikeacup oftea,neverdrink isexquisite,sweet.父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇7Yesterday wasFather s Day.I hadplanned to give my fatherapresent.But Ididntremember ituntil inthe morning.It was too lateto posta cardto him.Sol decidedto buy something.When Iwas inthe departmentstore.I foundit wasnoteasy forme to choosesomething rightfor him.Suddenly Igot anidea.I ranhomeand openedmycomputer.I madea beautifulcard andmailed himthrough thelnternet.then Ibeganto makesupper.When fathercame home,he wasvery gladtofind a big mealon thetable,then Iasked himto checkhis e-mail.He wasamazedto finda beautifulcardin hise-mail-bo_.父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇8Dear Dad,Today Iwas at the shoppingmall and I spentalot of timereading theFathersDay cardsoThey allhad aspecial messagethat insome wayor anotherreflectedhow I feelabout youoYet as I selected and read,and selectedandread again,it occurredto methatnot a single card said what Ireally want tosayto youGYoullsoon be84years old,Dad,and youand Iwill havehad55FathersDays togetheroI havent alwaysbeen withyou onFathers Daynor haveI beenwithyou for allof yourbirthdaysoIt wasnt because I didnt wantto bewithyouoIve alwaysbeen withyou inmy heartbut sometimeslife getsin thewayoYou know,Dad,there was a timewhen wewere not only separatedby thegenerationgapbut pletelypolarized byitYou stoodon oneside ofthe GreatDivideand Ion the other,father anddaughtersplit apart by age andexperience,opinions,hairstyles,cosmetics,clothing,curfews,music,andboysoThe Father-Daughter Duelof54shifted intohigh gearwhenyoutaught metodrivethe oldDodge and I decidedI woulddrive the54Chevy whetheryouliked itor noteThe police officer who escorted me home after you reported theChevystolen lateone evening wastoo young to understand father-daughterpolitics andtoo oldto havemuchtolerance fora snotty-16year oldoYou wereso decent about it,Dad,and Ithink thatwas probablywhat madeitthe worstnightof mylifeo父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇9Today isFatherDayi lovemy fatherso muchthat ive donemany thingsforhimointhe morningi boughtsome flowerswith pocketmoney andput themin thevaseointhe afternooni wenttobuysome vegetablesand cookedasimple butdeliciousdinner formy familyAfter supper,i gavefather thecardthat imademyself andsaid HappyFathersDayto himThen itold himto payomoreattentionto hishealth andnot tooverwork iaslo promisedto trymy besttogetothe firstplace inthe ingexam Hearingthis word,fatherolaughed aloudoToday isaspecial day,warm andmeaningful父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇10oTodayisfathersday!I wishdadhappy holidays!I givedad didabighead,weekend home,dad hasjust entered,I gavemyfather,my fatherwasveryhappy!And kissedmethank youfor yourgoodson!When Iwasachild,myfatherknow Ilike cars,often withI takea bus,watchthe streetrun allkinds of cars,tell me their names,which istheproductionoAlso with her motherto take meto visit motorshow0Let megrow alotofcarknowledge!Father helpme inforeign languagelearning andTV,especially strictwithmeoDad is notona businesstrip,I eback everyweek,to reviewa fewtimes aweekoflearning foreign languageoDad wantedmetoread,listen to mypronunciation right,remember wordsis notsolid,exercise atordinary timesluse aforeignlanguage并非事事顺利过去，因为工作的关系，我不得不经常出差，这实在是情非得已所以，抚育两个女儿的重担有时就落到了米歇尔的肩上but betweenmy ownexperiences growingup,and myongoingefforts tobethe best fatheri canbe,ive learneda coupleof thingsaboutwhatourchildren needmost fromtheir parents.自身成长的经历以及身为人父的经历，让我懂得了很多东西我一直竭尽全力做到最好，我也懂得孩子们最想从父母那里得到什么first andforemost,they needour time,and moreimportant thanthe quantityofhours wespendwiththem isthe qualityof thosehours,maybe itsjust askingabouttheir day,or takinga walktogether,but thesmallest momentscan havethe biggestimpact.首先，孩子们需要我们花时间陪伴但陪伴他们的时间质量比时间数量更重要也许只是日常生活中的简短问候，或是一起散步聊天，但这些最短暂的时光却可以对他们产生最大的影响they also need structure,including learningthe valuesofself-discipline andresponsibility,malia andsasha maylive inthe whitehousethese days,but michelleand istill makesure theyfinish theirschoolwork,do theirchores,and walkthe dog.同时，他们也需要一种结构，包括需要了解自律和责任的价值尽管玛莉亚和萨莎现在生活在白宫，但我和米歇尔还是要确保他们完成家庭作业，做好日常杂务，按时遛狗and aboveall,children needour unconditionallove Cwhetherthey succeedor makemistakes；when lifeis easyand whenlifeto talkwith myfatheroDad taughtmetolearn whenthe TVisalwayspatiently tomy topicmethodsandtips,give methe homework,and thencorrects dadmore seriously0Normally,I dothe wrongthings,mom anddad,give mea reasonoImlearningtogetgood grades,awards,father andmother encouragedme tocontinueto workhard!Father likecollecting stampsand reading,but alsooften and I playchess,takemetovisit the museum,let meopen horizon0Dad andI aregood friends!I lovemydad!父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇11Dear Dad,Today Iwas atthe shoppingmall andI spentalotof timereadingtheFather sDaycards.They allhad aspecial messagethat insome wayoranotherreflected howIfeelabout you.YetasIselectedandread,and selectedandreadagain,it occurredto methat nota singlecardsaidwhatIreallywanttosayto you.You11soon be84years old,Dad,and youandIwill havehad55Father,sDays together.Ihaventalwaysbeen withyou onFather,sDaynor haveI beenwithyouforall of yourbirthdays.It wasntbecauseIdidnt wanttobewithyou.Ive alwaysbeen withyou inmy heartbut sometimeslife getsin theway.Youknow,Dad,there wasa timewhen wewere notonly separatedby thegenerationgap butcompletelypolarized byit.You stoodon oneside oftheGreat DivideandIon theother,father anddaughter splitapartbyageande_perience,opinions,hairstyles,cosmetics,clothing,curfews,music,andboys.The Father-Daughter Duelof54shifted intohigh gearwhenyoutaught metodrive the oldDodge andI decidedIwoulddrivethe54Chevy whetheryouliked itornot.ThepoliceofficerwhoescortedmehomeafteryoureportedtheChevy stolenlateoneeveningwastooyoungtounderstandfather-daughterpolitics andtoo oldtohave muchtolerance fora snotty_year old.Youweresodecentaboutit,Dad,andIthink thatwas probablywhat madeittheworst nightof mylife.父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇12Father isalsoverykind topeople.He ofteninvites thosepoor temporaryworkerswho are faraway fromhome tohave dinnerwith us.He alwayshelps ourneighborsrepairbikes,fill theflat,fi_locks,and soon.Whenever anyone isintrouble,he neverhesitatesto offerhis warmhands.All thisearns himlotsof friendsand theirrespectas well.Father isfilled withenterprise inhis life.He lostmany chancesofstudyingbefore for.some reasons.But hehas nevergiven uplearning all thetime.He hasreadmany bookson architecturein ordertoworkmuch betteras ahouse-builder.Hehas gonethrough lotsof difficultiesbecause ofhisinadequate education.But hehasnt lostheart atall.He keepslearning withstrong will.Now hehas becomeavery ecellentworker inhis company.is tough.最为重要的是，孩子们需要我们付出无条件的爱无论他们是取得了成功，或是犯了错误，无论生活是舒适还是艰难and lifeis toughforalotofamericans today,more andmore kidsgrow upwithouta fatherfigure.others miafather whosaway servinghis countryin uniform,andeven forthose dadswhoarepresent intheir childrenslives,the recessionhas takenaharsh toll,if youreout ofa jobor strugglingto pay the bills,doing whateverittakes tokeepthe kidshealthy,happy andsafe canunderstandably takeprecedence overeverythingelse.现在，很多美国人的生活非常艰难越来越多的孩子在成长过程中缺乏父亲的陪伴有些父亲身穿军装，为国效力，孩子们便不得不在家苦苦等候即便是那些可以陪伴孩子们的父亲，也因为经济衰退受到了严重的创伤如果你失业了,或是入不敷出，也要尽全力让孩子们过上健康、快乐，安全的生活，这显然是最重要的事情thats whymy administrationhas offeredmen whowanttobe good fathersalittleextra support,weve boosted因此，对于那些希望尽职做个好父亲的男人，政府正在为他们提供一些额外的支持我们鼓励社会和宗教团体关注父亲的角色，并与企业合作为父亲们提供一些机会，让他们与孩子们一起度过在保龄球馆或棒球场的时光，或与随军神父一起帮助父亲们建立与孩子们的联系were doingthis becausewe allhaveastake inforgingstronger bondsbetween fathersand their children,and youcanfind outmore aboutsome ofwhat weredoing at我们这么做，是因为为父亲和孩子建立更为紧密的联系，对所有人都大有裨益如果您想了解更多我们正在参与的工作，but wealso knowthat everyfather hasa personalresponsibilitytodoright byour kidsas well,all of us canencourage ourchildrento turnoff thevideo gamesand pick upabook,all ofuscanpack ahealthylunch for our son,or gooutside andplay ballwith ourdaughter,and all ofuscanteach ourchildren thedifference betweenright andwrong,and showthem throughour own examplethevaluein treatingone anotheras wewish tobe treated.但我们也知道，每个父亲都有责任为孩子们树立榜样，教育他们做正确的事情我们都能够鼓励孩子们关掉游戏、捡起书本我们都能为儿子准备健康的午餐，或与女儿一起外出打球我们都能教育孩子们区分对错，并且以自己为榜样,让他们看到，我们希望别人怎样对待自己，就应该怎样对待别人，这非常重要our kidsare prettysmart,they understand that lifewont alwaysbe perfect,that sometimes,the roadgets rough,that evengreat parentsdont geteverythingright.我们的孩子都很聪明他们知道生活并不总是那么完美，他们懂得有时候道路会比较坎坷，即便是伟大的父母也不一定每件事都做的对父亲节英文演讲稿范文篇2good morning,its goodtobe home onthis fathersday withmy girls,and itsanhonor tospend sometime withallofyou todayinthehouse ofour lord.早上好在家里陪伴我的女儿是一件乐事，在教堂与各位共度也是我的荣幸attheend ofthe sermonon themount,jesus closesby saying,whoever hearsthesewords ofmine,and doesthem,shall belikened toa wiseman whobuilt hishouseupon arockand therain descended,and thefloods came,and thewinds blew,and beatupon thathouse,and itfell not,for itwas foundedupon arock,[matthew724-25]在《登山宝训》的结尾，耶稣最后说“无论谁听了我的话，并付诸实践，都应该会成为一位能在坚石上建造房屋的智者大雨过后，洪水泛滥，狂风怒号，击打屋舍，但房屋不倒，是因为其建立在坚石之上”（马太福音，第七章24-25）of all the rocksupon whichwe buildour lives,we arereminded todaythat familyisthe mostimportant,and we are calledto recognizeand honorhow criticaleveryfather isto that foundation,they areteachers andcoaches,they arementors androlemodels,they areexamples ofsucceand themen whoconstantly pushus towardit.今天,在我们建立我们的生活的所有基础之上，我们应该记得家庭是最重要的在此基础上，我们应该承认父亲的重要并尊敬他们他们是老师，是教练他们是导师，是行为的楷模他们是成功的范例，是不断将我们推向成功的人but ifwe arehonest withourselves,well admitthat whattoo manyfathers alsoareis missing-missing fromtoo manylives andtoomanyhomes,they haveabandonedtheir responsibilities,acting likeboys insteadof men.and thefoundations ofourfamilies areweaker becauseof it.倘如我们对自己诚实，我们就不得不承认太多的父亲从太多的生活，太多的家庭中消失他们像男孩一样地放弃了他们的责任，而没有表现得像男人因此，我们家庭的基础变得薄弱how manytimes inthe lastyear hasthis citylost achild atthe handsof anotherchildhow manytimes haveour heartsstopped inthe middleofthenight withthesound ofa gunshotorasiren how many teenagershave weseen hangingaround onstreetcorners when they should be sittinginaclassroom howmany aresitting inprisonwhentheyshouldbeworking,or atleast lookingforajob howmany inthisgeneration arewe willingto loseto povertyor violenceor addictionhowmany在过去的一年里，在这座城市中，多少孩子死于单挑斗殴？多少人在午夜睡梦中，随着一声枪响或一声警笛停止了心跳？我们曾看到多少孩子在街角闲逛，当他们本应坐在教室里的时候？多少人应在工作或至少找工作时，却被囚禁在监狱里？这一代人有多少是我们愿意在贫困、暴力和毒品中失去的有多少？yes,we needmore copsonthestreet,yes,we needfewer gunsinthehands ofpeoplewho shouldnthave them.yes,we needmore moneyforourschools,and morebutwealsoneedfamilies toraise ourchildren,we needfathers torealizethatresponsibility doesnot endat conception,we needthem torealize thatwhatmakes youamanisnottheabilitytohaveachild-its thecouragetoraiseone.但我们同样需要家庭去抚养我们的孩子我们需要父亲们认识到责任不是结束于受精我们需要他们认识到你之所以是个男人，不因为你有生育能力，而是你有抚养以个孩子的勇气weneedto helpallthe mothers outthere whoare raisingthese kidsbythemselves；themotherswho dropthem offat school,go towork,pickupthem upinthe afternoon,work anothershift,get dinner,make lunches,paythebills,fixthe house,and alltheotherthings ittakes both parentsto do.so manyof thesewomenaredoing aheroic job,but theyneed support,theyneed anotherparent,theirchildrenneed anotherparent,thats whatkeeps theirfoundationstrong,its whatkeeps thefoundation ofourcountrystrong.我们要帮助那些凭一己之力抚养孩子的母亲；母亲们将孩子送到学校，然后去工作，下午又将孩子从学校接回，开始另一份工作，做晚餐，做中餐，付学费，修理房子，而这一切都应由父母两人共同承担多少母亲在独自承担如此纷繁复杂的工作，但她们需要支持她们需要另一对父母她们的子女需要另一对父母这使她们的基础变得强大，这使整个国家的基础变得强大i knowwhat itmeans tohave anabsent father,although mycircumstances werentastough asthey arefor manyyoung peopletoday,even thoughmyfatherleft uswheni wastwoyearsold,and ionly knewhim fromthe lettershe wroteand thestoriesthat myfamily told,iwasluckier thanmost,i grewup inhawaii,and hadtwowonderful grandparentsfrom kansaswho pouredeverything theyhad intohelping mymotherraise mysisterandme-who workedwithherto teachus aboutlove andrespectand theobligations wehave tooneanother,i screwedup moreoften thani shouldve,but igot plentyof secondchances,and eventhough wedidnt havea lotofmoney,scholarships gavemetheopportunity togo tosomeofthebestschoolsin thecountry,alotof kidsdont getthese chancestoday,thereisno marginforerror intheir lives,so myown storyis differentin thatway.我知道这说明我曾有父爱的缺失，虽然我情况比起今天很多年轻人要好很多即使我的父亲在我两岁时离开了我们，我也仅仅从他的书信和家人的讲述中了解他，但我比大多数人幸运很多我在夏威夷长大，从堪萨斯来的祖父母倾其所有帮助母亲抚养我的姐姐和我他们和母亲一道教育我们爱，尊重和对别人的责任我比理论上更多地犯错，但为我总有第二次机会虽然我们不怎么有钱，但奖学金给了我机会到全美一些最好的学校学习今天，很多孩子却不能得到那样的机会经济条件不允许他们在人生中有任何过失所以，我自己的故事倒是有些不同still,i know the tollthat beingasingleparent tookon mymother-how shestruggledat timesto thepay bills；togiveus thethings thatother kidshad；to playalltheroles thatbothparentsare supposedtoplay,andiknowthetollit tookon me.soiresolved manyyears agothat itwas myobligation tobreak thecycle-that ifi couldbe anythinginlife,i would beagoodfathertomygirls；that ifi couldgive themanything,i wouldgive themthat rock-thatfoundation-on whichto buildtheir lives,and thatwouldbethe greatestgift i could offer.然而，我的确知道做一名像我母亲一样的单身母亲所需付出的代价一一她怎样努力去为我们支付学费；给我们和其他孩子一样的东西;扮演父亲和母亲的角色我也知道我所付出的代价所以，我多年前就下定决心，把打破这循环作为我的责任一一在我所能做的所有事中，我会做我女儿的好父亲；在所有我能给予她们的东西中，我会给她们一个坚实的基础，使她们能够在此之上建立自己的生活而这也将是我所能给予她们的最好的礼物i saythis knowingthat ihavebeenan imperfectfather-knowingthati havemademistakesand willcontinue tomake more；wishing thaticouldbehomefor mygirlsand mywifemorethani amright now.i saythis knowingallofthese thingsbecauseeven asweareimperfect,even aswe facedifficult circumstances,therearestillcertain lessonswe muststrive tolive andlearn asfathers-whether weare blackorwhite；rich orpoor；fromthesouth sideorthewealthiest suburb.我虽这样说，但我当然知道我不是一个完美的父亲；我当然知道我犯了很多错误，也会继续犯更多错误；我也希望我能花比现在更多的时间在家里陪伴我的女儿和妻子我这样说，因为我知道这一切都由于我们的不完美,由于我们所面对的困境，作为父亲，仍然有许多需要去努力学习，努力谋生一一无论我们是黑人或白人；富有或贫困；来自南方或富人聚居的城郊education thatrequires.我们都知道教育决定孩子的未来我们知道他们将不仅的印地安那的孩子为好的职位竞争，他们将和印度、中国乃至全世界的孩子竞争我们也知道全球化竞争对于工作、学习和文化程度的要求its upto us-asfathersand parents-to instillthis ethicof excellenceinour children,its upto usto sayto ourdaughters,dont everlet imageson tvtellyou whatyouareworth,because iexpect youto dreamwithout limitand reachforthose goals,its upto usto tellour sons,those songsontheradio mayglorifyviolence,but inmy housewe liveglory toachievement,self respect,and hardwork,its upto usto setthese highexpectations,andthat means meetingthose expectationsourselves,thatmeanssetting examplesofexcellence inourownlives,作为父母-----------我们应该灌输孩子们这种优秀的品行我们应该去告诉孩子他的价值，而是由电视上的图片来完成，因为我希望你们有无限。